I get lots of dating questions from guys about women. Some good, some bad, some just plain ridiculous.

The bad ones about dating are usually what I call “avoidance questions.” These are questions the guy is asking so he can avoid taking action. He figures that, since he doesn’t know the answer to his question, he can’t act until get gets it, giving him an excuse not to act.

Here’s the truth about dating questions: just about all of them are answered by taking action. In fact, the fastest way to get an answer to a question is by making a decision to just do something, then doing it.

That’s what the most successful businesspeople do. They know that, no matter how many experts they consult, the only way they will truly get their questions answered is by taking action.

When you take action will you sometimes get results you don’t want?

Yes, you will–but you will also have a definite answer to your question, laying out the next course of action to take. You now know what NOT to do, getting you closer to knowing what TO do.

Guys who use dating questions as an excuse not to act wind up wasting all kinds of time, never getting any results. Taking action is an efficient use of time, getting you closer to your outcome than merely just standing around waiting for someone else to answer your question.

So, if you want to get your dating questions about women answered, just take action. You might be surprised to find you actually like the answer you get… and can use it again in the future.

by: John Alanis